Porn: a HARD look/Part 4

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Track 9: Sex Sells

Speaking of saturated minds, lets touch upon the topic of “sex sells.” Sexualizing anything in the market place is guaranteed profitability. “Arousing Advertising” is king in the corporate world, for it has the supreme skill of infiltration via subliminal seduction. It is the most pervasive propaganda one could choose to use to promote their product or platform. It is the promise of pleasure that has everybody’s eyes lit up, hearts beating fast, wallets in hand, & undivided attention. Anything that could allegedly make us feel good, we automatically associate with value. A salesman’s perfect storm. My honest opinion on the matter, is “go for it!” A little sexy goes a long way. If a little quick-witted, charming, wake me up is all it takes to sell a smoothie or a pair of sunglasses for your little start-up mall hut… more power to ya! Live that American dream, you little entrepreneur you! Sexy advertising doesn’t typically hurt anyone.

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On the other hand, the multi billion dollar industry of selling sex via porn has become so profitable that it is a significant staple currently, for the economies of the world to thrive, like oil, & rich resources. This is a whole nother kind of selling sex. Obscene images have become a world currency. That said, does this widespread  sex/porn industry I have been describing all day, significantly influence the promotion of prostitution, incest, molestation, sex trafficking, slavery, the exploitation of children & the straight hypersexualization of women? Has it gone too far? Is it virtually unstoppable at this point?? Have places of employment become a standard platform for misogyny due to this hypersexualization?

Has this bad behavior against woman (& certain men) become “normalized” to a degree, then ignored, & brushed under the rug to the point where the victims are shamed for coming forward & in most cases professionally bullied out of a job or career? Eg: the news media, Culinary industry, Hollywood, Hip Hop, the Olympics, USDA Forest Service, farm workers, the school system, hospitality, healthcare, the Military, Corporate, Law Enforcement, & many many others. Has the influential nature of pornography woven deep into the fabric of our society compromised our capacity to properly gauge moral & ethical righteous codes & standards? Has is it redefined “NO” to mean YES??? Has it compromised a woman’s right to personal autonomy wherefore we respect the female body as owned by its proprietor who must give consent?

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Consent? What’s that, Bubba?”

Have things like Catholic Priest mass molestation & the “Me Too” movement finally exposed & exemplified how sick, twisted, insidious, wrong, diabolical, deceitful & down right criminal, people can be, when they allow their desire for sex to trump all virtuous human dignity & respect? Has it unveiled how wrong it is for ANY organization, religious or otherwise, to repress a healthy sexual libido & enforce any such ludicrous rule as a VOW of celibacy?? Whatever happened to balance? Too much sex causes major problems, too little sex causes major problems. It’s not rocket science.

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Have things like abstinence created monsters lurking among us dressed as holy men? The sex deprivation practiced by celibate priests compels them to molest children &/or rape nuns. Celibate nuns have become “dried up,” infertile & wind up with hormonal imbalances & reproductive issues such as cervical cancer. Why? Because they are not expressing & experiencing their sexuality freely in a holistic manner, & whats worse, they are trained to be ashamed of their sexual desires. Many of these women wind up with breast cancer as well, from over nurturing everyone but themselves.

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Just a note: I went to Catholic school for twelve whole years, & honestly, by the time I was 15, I was a rebellious bad teen, a vampire lover, dressed in black, listened to TOOL, screaming Nirvana B-sides, Metallica & the Sex Pistols & by Senior year, I only believed in the Bob Marley version of a “Ja God,” if that says anything about how much I felt like something was just not quite right within the twisted Catholic dictatorship.

A celibate person’s sacred sexuality & body is essentially not being honored in any healthy kind of way. Deprivation of any kind is destructive & harmful. Teaching people that sex is dirty, shameful, sinful or any such gross misinterpretation, IS THE BIGGEST SIN THERE IS< if ya wanna go & start namin’ stuff  “a sin.” Religious dogma has been gravely mistaken over the years. And now look… the awful atrocities that have happened in the Catholic Church are a sad sad unfortunate by-product that could have indeed been prevented.

Have lines been blurred? Have lines been crossed? Are people just confused about how handle the topic of sex, or the power of sex? Are people confused about how to categorize it, how to assess it, how to teach it, talk about it, express it, engage it? How to understand its innate sacred power & influence, deeply rooted in our genetic design? Are indoctrinated individuals so embarrassed & appalled by healthy sexual expression they shame people for it & then try to BAN it for the sake of false power & control? Are these certain people scared of regarding sexual pleasure as a normal necessary holistic feature of a life well lived? Get over yourself, Archbishop molester… your kind, is NOT WELCOME HERE.

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Why does religious ordinance bury sexuality like it’s a curse? Sex is a human feature that humans must exemplify in order to nurture their bodies properly & grow into balanced blessed creative creatures. Food, exercise, stretching, breathing, reading, laughing, working, playing, sleeping, socializing… all included just the same. Why are certain organized religious “cults” uncomfortable with transgender folks? Why are gay, bi, or metro sexual people challenged by our society? Live & let live! I like mint chocolate chip ice cream. You might like pistachio. So what… as long as no one is getting hurt, or committing crimes, why does sexual preference matter in the scheme of things? Go back to your ignorant Stone Age Roman Empire comfort zone & take your crucifying attitude & Papal codes & ethics with ya.

Since we have all been depraved & starved & labelled & oppressed & shamed & fucked with for so long, for our sexual identities & sexual expression & sexual desires & fantasies… have we now as a result just completely rebelled? Have we just turned into a mad bunch of wily hedonists who can’t be trusted to practice healthy moderation? Are we somehow, in a rather strange way… making up for lost time? Have human beings at large become a raging hormonal dictatorship of debauchery?

Has the overexposure of sex that we now have so plenty of, normalized unbalanced bad behavior & distorted our ability to discern healthy habits from toxic ones? Have we lost our general sense of simplicity whereas we maintain a level of endorphins regularly via the cultivation of love & joy, as in healthy recreation? Has the need for sexual satisfaction become a big giant over-sized Storm-trooper who has attacked & weakened our ability to practice self control? And, no, it’s not Satan’s fault. Frankly, it is the profound handy work of that pesky little devil: Testosterone.

And no, I am not one of those women’s libbers who wanna strip lovely strapping strong men of their manliness. I for one, am a sure proponent of a “man’s man.” I adore testosterone & it’s hearty benefits for both men & thus women. I am woman, hear me ROAR! But, if you are a man that’s just meowing, than… we have a problem. Testosterone MUST BE BALANCED in the body, just like anything else, in order to be effective & beneficial & not harmful or a trouble maker. It’s a simple concept, really. See charts below…

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[Testosterone is a hormone found in humans, as well as in other animals. The testicles primarily make testosterone in men. Women’s ovaries also make testosterone, though in much smaller amounts. Testosterone production starts to increase significantly during puberty, and begins to dip after age 30 or so.

Testosterone is most often associated with sex drive, and plays a vital role in sperm production. But it also affects bone and muscle mass, the way men store fat in the body, and even red blood cell production. A man’s testosterone levels can also affect his mood.] —www.healthline.com

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Male Sexual Misconduct and the Testosterone Curse How might men’s sexual misbehavior be governed by a lawless libido?

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Track 10: Testosterone

Aside from testosterone levels being out of wack, there are culprits that branch out from that tree. all together they are responsible for inspiring the need for extreme porn production & consumption in our culture. That said, has the multitude of various sophisticated porn outlets streamlined our culture into a haze of hedonism?

He·don·ism
/ˈhēdəˌnizəm,ˈhedənˌizəm/Submit
noun
the pursuit of pleasure; sensual self-indulgence.
synonyms: self-indulgence, pleasure-seeking, self-gratification, lotus-eating, sybaritism;
The ethical theory that pleasure (in the sense of the satisfaction of desires) is the highest good and proper aim of human life.

Maybe we have been double crossed, bamboozled, brainwashed, manipulated, coerced, underhandedly persuaded by media driven plots that convince us we: WANT MORE, need more, must have, can’t live without… for the sake of sales & clicks. On the side of the citizens that are behind the scenes selling & making the stuff, has GREED superseded the moral compass? After all, SEX does indeed SELL, especially when you are selling SEX. It has indeed proven to be a very profitable enterprise. Have these clever sex vendors become the “candymen” of our culture? Are we the “demand” of their “supply” that keeps their businesses booming? Have we blindly fed into the visual manipulations teasing us to give in, like when a juicy burger commercial comes on when we are hungry? Have we become a CAPTIVE audience to a wellspring of wet pussies & big dicks & tits, & twerking asses?

The big fat answer here… is: YES. Sorry to break it to ya. But there is the truth, & then there’s the “sugar coated I believe in the goodness of humanity” version. This version, I got here… is the TRUTH, my friends.

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I am not tryin’ to be a bitch, or a prude or a kill joy. I like sex, I enjoy certain visuals, I wasn’t born yesterday, & I am certainly not in favor of censorship. It’s really not about religion or politics, family values, bein’ a goody two shoes or Polly Puritan. It’s not even about marriage or monogamy. It’s about moving our society in the direction of human decency, whereas we as a people actually have the moral aptitude to CHOOSE to not be so excessive, when it comes to the creation, distribution, & consumption of pornography.

It’s about evolving our race to be elite humans with nourished souls, ethical common sense & RESPECT for the privilege, blessing & gift of our erogenous zones, G spots, our extreme orgasmic potentials & our capacity to combine blissfully with counterparts. It is such a grand blessing that we can do what we do, & have the parts to do so. We are a bunch of lucky dogs, if ya ask me.

It’s about balance & moderation, maturity & self control. Right now, our human nation is either obese or emaciated so to speak. Neither state serves us properly. A happy medium is called for. A balanced libido is the KEY to a harmonious existence via the fostering of moderation. Self-control means… being mature & conscious enough to have the where-with-all to be the master of our desires & not vice versa.

It’s about we as a human race, learning how to be evolved sexually as to where we know by default how to integrate sex & spirit & use it as a powerful tool to manifest great things into our reality…. hence, Tantric Sex.  Learning how to harness it’s superior energetic creative potential, not just to make babies, but brilliant works, leaps & bounds of historic measure. If we all grew as a race to become more aligned with the true nature of sex & spirit working as a team, as a Divine force, to serve us in ways almost unimaginable to us now, we would have a much easier go of this thing that we call “life.” Trust me. Having the “birds & bees” talk or an outdated Sex Ed class that provides students with condoms & a sheet of generic textbook sex terms will no longer be valid. We will evolve rather, to teach our children the “magic” of sexual connection & how it can be applied in practical & beneficial ways to one’s progressive life path which will thus aide significantly in personal growth & successes.

Speaking of successes… maybe all along, the kind of Mojo I speak of,  was the very thing that was harnessed to design, build & construct the massive towering N.Y City high rises, grand resorts & rivieras, sophisticated air craft, space craft, speed trains, underground cities, magnificent Tibetan monasteries, Egyptian Pyramids & Palaces of Beijing that we have today. I mean men build these, with their wives, counterparts & families behind them all the while. These grand works of our modern day world some dating back eons… were essentially built by US, right? Mister Mojo Risin’… haaaaad to be involved. Dontchya think? Just-a thought.

Back to what I was saying, it’s about moving our culture away from self serving empty instant gratification to a more civilized satiation that serves not only our bodies but our sparkly savvy souls as well. I would be so proud to be a part of a civilization that officially knows moderation & the magic of sex instead of one that’s so overly familiar with superficial, gorging, uncultivated, perverse, hormonal appetites for destruction. Wouldn’t you? Don’t lie… Well, your 5-D higher self would anyway, whether your 3-D earthly persona likes it or not. And, no, your HD, 4K, Virtual Reality Web Cam personality doesn’t get to have an opinion here. Sorry…

Let’s visit A.D. China & India, just for a moment… these interpretations & practices of primitive cultures are very curious

Track 11: Sex History 101 

[Sex in pre-modern China, and Chinese views on sexuality, have undergone dramatic changes. In early Chinese society homosexual, bisexual, and extra-marital sex were acceptable. Then, Taoist sexual practices came into play, which were more spiritual in nature. Women were the yin and men the yang essence, and they could merge and share their energy with each other. This concept led men in pre-modern China to prostitutes, to acquire as much energy as possible.

In ancient China, sexuality was unrestricted and practiced indiscriminately. The people of Xinjiang, a remote region of northwest China, are not only responsible for creating the earliest form of porn, but also some of the most graphic pornographic artwork in the world. The carvings were discovered in the 1980s by Chinese archaeologist Wang Binghua. Among other things, the 3,000-year-old petroglyphs depict a massive, bisexual orgy, complete with monkey masks.

China was more hospitable than most ancient societies, to say the least. It was common practice for men to let travelers have sex with their wives. It was believed travelers were distinguished, and sexy time with them would bring in new blood and herald a better future. Husbands would set travelers up with a place to stay and ensure all his needs were met.

In ancient China, emperors juggled a very full and complex sex schedule, which was essentially a tightly controlled rotation of concubines chosen from a roster of thousands of women. Emperor Sui Yang To (AD 581-618), for instance, had one main queen, two deputy queens, six royal consorts, 72 madams, and 3,000 palace maidens.

In 14th-century China, brothels were legal, registered, tax-paying businesses. There was no social stigma associated with visiting prostitutes during this time. Sung Dynasty princess Shan-Yin even had her own custom bed made to accommodate up to 30-men, who would pleasure her simultaneously.

Emperor Sui Yang To (AD 581-618) used a customized wheelchair to ensnare teenage virgins in the optimal position for intercourse. It was called the “virgin wheelchair,” and when a young woman sat on it, clamps sprung up, holding her arms down and spreading her legs apart. Then a mechanized chair cushion tilted ever so slightly, positioning her just right. Once the chair did its work, the virgin was ready to “gain the royal favor.”

Erotic images were painted on silk as learning materials for newlywed couples before their big performance on their wedding night. Some of these tiles date back to the Eastern Han period (AD 23-220), and didn’t exactly set the stage for a romantic evening between man and wife. Many depict group sex or partner swapping, and one shows a couple having sex while another man, and a mulberry tree full of monkeys, watch.

Taoists believed that losing too much jing, the essence of life, could result in illness or death. Of all the things in the human body, semen contains the most jing. Perhaps it’s no coincidence jing sounds a bit like jizz. When ancient Chinese Taoist men had sex, it was in their best interest to refrain from ejaculating. Ancient Taoists believed that semen not ejaculated would travel to the brain and nourish the being.

According to legend, the first emperor of China, known as the Yellow Emperor, became immortal by having sex with thousands of young virgins. It’s believed in Taoism that any man can gain immortality this way. The men of ancient China made it their life’s mission to have sex with as many young virgins as possible.

In primitive Chinese society, people lived in groups and had sex with whomever. There was no social etiquette in this area, or even inclination towards wanting romantic commitments from a single spouse. That’s not to say there weren’t emotional attachments, only that members of these groups weren’t restricted to emotional and sexual entanglements with just one person, but were free to explore.

Homosexuality was not uncommon or condemned in ancient China. Same-sex coupling was pretty popular during the Song, Ming, and Qing dynasties. Many emperors of the Han Dynasty were known to have a few men on their list of sexual partners.

Homosexuality was far more common among women than men for quite some time. This was only because of the belief that a man must save his “essence” and absorb the yin energy from a woman, whereas women didn’t lose their essence through intercourse, they only gained.]

—- By Lyra Radford

{Considered to be one of the most conservative countries in the world, believe it or not, India was extremely liberal and open about the concept of sex even before the 13th century. The statement is based on the sex sculptures carved on the walls of temples in India that were built in the 2nd Century. Sex was even taught as a formal subject as a part of education with pictorial representations of Kamasutra. Kama (sexual desire) was considered to be a part of the four human goals of life. The other three goals were: Dharma (moral life), Artha (material gains and means of life), and Moksha (the release from the cycle of life and rebirths). Considered to be a holistic act, there were various sculptures of different positions, forms, and acts carved on the walls of various temples in India.} —theculturetrip.com

Photo tour of Khajuraho: A visual treat of erotic sculptures… Bhagyashri Pawar
[We Indians even have a god for sex – Kama. So it is only natural that we have erotic sculptures on our temples. There have been many questions raised on the reason behind having erotic sculptures and sexual imagery in a place otherwise considered so ‘holy’ and ‘pure’. There are a few theories floating about but the most popular one seems to be that in order to enter a place so pure, you need to relieve yourself of all your desires and lust. It is by acceptance of lust and desire in you that you can learn to control it. Furthermore, these sculptures are always on the outer walls of temples meaning that the humans need to leave their desires outside before stepping in. In many Indian manuscripts, sex was considered to be spiritual and not hedonistic. There are many such theories but the fact remains that these temples are known more for their erotic sculptures than the deities residing inside.] — by Rutu Ladage via http://www.indiatimes.com

Kamasutra. Ka·ma·su·tra. noun. A Sanskrit treatise setting forth rules for sexual pleasure, love, and marriage in accordance with Hindu law. A detailed, erotic account of the art and techniques of love, possibly written by a first-century sage. An unexpurgated English translation was published in 1883 by the British explorer and scholar Sir Richard Francis Burton.

I’m gonna go ahead & play the “Trantric Sex” card now. Isn’t sex supposed to be sacred?  Aren’t we supposed to honor each other via it’s expression? Since when has it become such a commodity, a monetary gain, a rogue carnal game, a power play, a conquest, or an opportunity we must seize at all costs? Since when has it become such a blank brainless empty service to one another for the sake of greed, pleasure, control, status, notoriety, fame, fortune, or a fast fix at the expense of someone else’s integrity or faculties. Are we all just a bunch of fraternizing “Muff Scouts” & “Snake Hunters,” in search of lust, money, or a temporal advantage? Isn’t sex supposed to be a blissful demonstration of  the depth of connection that we are indeed capable of as a superior species?

That said, a release, a quickie, a sensual exploration, a 5 hour Tantric adventure… are all equally kosher believe it or not, within the realm of soul. Like in ancient China, maybe polyamory & prostitution is not such a bad idea. Maybe it should, in all fairness, be up to a person’s independent path & growth, how they choose to roll.

Back in the A. D. days, it appears that places like China & India, were a “free for all” rock out with your cock out salacious Shangri-La where sex was used & over-used for all kinds of oddball superstitious reasons, as well as used, quite frankly, as an excuse to assault, ensnare & treat their fellow folk like pawns. Ummm, yea, not the brightest way to behave toward each other & to run a civilization. It’s obvious & not rocket science that the human specimen was practicing the art of living upon a less evolved level back then. Caveman mentalities were evidently closer to their dear little “bless their hearts,” than the enlightened strands of today. But, at least they had one thing goin’ for them, they didn’t discriminate. Exploration & individual identity was honored & encouraged & nothing was shamed or frowned upon. Let’s just take that tidbit of wisdom from their playbook, & call it a day, shall we….

Despite the fact that we are prone to be herd-like creatures, we are individuals & free thinkers & each of us is turned on in our own unique way. We are all wired differently, tuned differently, & for all intents & purposes, there is nothing wrong with sexual individuality. Or… relationship individuality, for that matter. This may be controversial to say… but sugar baby/sugar mama & daddy arrangements, swingers, polygamy, Tri-couples, multiple marriages should be honored & respected. Just because western culture teaches that monogamy or being “married for life” is the “right” way, moral & ethical way… doesn’t mean that it is the right way for EVERYONE. And regarding “sugar” arrangements, who ever said that dating the “regular” way guarantees mutual respect or integrity? At least with an agreed arrangement, both parties are guaranteed transparency, fair treatment, & equal benefits. Marriage is a business partnership, essentially. So why can’t a relationship between two dating people be addressed that same way for all intents & purposes? Bingo.

I am a sure proponent of personal CHOICE, & preference. What it comes down to is: intention. What matters is: intentionIntention is the big, strong, bold & brazen word of the day. Experience & express as you wish, whatever floats the ole… little man in the boat (lol)… as long as sex is not used as a weapon. Ya heard?

A W-E-A-P-O-N, my friends… a weapon.

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