Your aura is an energy field composed of vibrations that make up the health of your light body. It is the invisible bubble you carry around everywhere on a daily, second by second basis & is your own personal “room,” if you will. If your auric field is cloudy, compromised, corrupted, clogged, damaged, disturbed, dim, dank, or drab, you will not catch me around for long.
Who wants to walk into a creepy room with no windows & poor air quality that smells like stale fries & old socks, let alone hang out there? I only share space, time & consciousness with people who take soul maintenance seriously. Making a concerted effort to be a responsible caretaker of your temple means chakra balancing, energy clearing, & auric cleansing.
If you consume meat, dairy, alcohol, high fructose corn syrup, soda, or overdose on sucralose; if you sit in a smoke cloud of cigarettes, vape mist or weed like it’s going out of style; if you watch or listen to convoluted drama or negative news, feed into gossip or grief; if your vibe is toxic, low level, heavy, dense, shadowy, dark, sick, sticky, needy, whiny, fear-based, anxious, unsettled, angry, limited, or stagnant; if you even have a percentage of any variation of the things mentioned…? I don’t care if you’re Brad Pitt… BE ADVISED, you will be kept at a safe distance.
It’s nothing personal. It’s your choice to be you, it’s my choice to be me. It’s as simple as that. A like attracts a like. We attract who & what we are. It’s the mirror law. If you would like to attract healed, whole, super awesome people… you must first BE ONE.
Tip: WATER does wonders for the body & soul. Bathe in it often, & drink it generously. The vibratory frequency of water is magnetic, drawing unto it healing & cleansing properties, thus targeting whatever needs to be cleared in the energy field. Why do you think baptisms are traditionally performed with an anointing of water? Capitalize on this natural resource, that’s what it’s there for.
Who knew? That life was really… all about habits. Who knew that life was NOT ABOUT, looking for anything outside of ourselves, but right with, ourselves instead. The tiny little micro moves you make all day, every day, one day at a time… all add up, to bake the big fat cake called: YOUR LIFE. Was it the little bird… who said that? No, it wasn’t, cause NO ONE said it.
No one ever taught us any of that magic in first grade. And I am almost certainly sure that no one taught us that growing up the ladder either. Not that I recall anyway. I am quite sure, I woulda been much better off, if someone had passed on that little secret nugget sooner. And, “brush your teeth,” “comb your hair,” “clean your room,” “do your homework…” doesn’t quite hit the mark I’m referring to.
The reason why I remember this so well, is cause I was 15, & I just got my very first job at this “Staples” kind of place called: “The Paper Cutter.” I had the job pretty much all 4 years through high school. We had an entire book department like a Barnes & Noble. I was the the luck dog employee to have to get up early every Saturday morning to punch in & do the N.Y. Times Best Seller “book changeover.” It was actually great!
I felt special & privileged to update The Times list every week. Besides, it was a perfect clock crusher. Before ya know it, it was lunch break… or more like, a Doritos, Snapple, smoke a bowl & cigarette break 🙂 (talk about habits…lol). Ode to my teenage self. I was a total book obsessed teenager who “collected” everything I could get my hands on that was interesting & enchanting. I pretty much knew the Best Seller list by heart for those 4 years. lol
“All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten,” by Robert Fulghum… was another book that never strayed from the list back then, circa 89-92. But, the book about HABITS… that book floated between #1 & #5 for the longest time. Matter of fact, present day, the Simon & Shuster website says this: “New York Times bestseller—over 40 million copies sold. The #1 Most Influential Business Book of the Twentieth Century” Hmmm, wonder why?
Well… because the big fat elephant in the room, is why. You know that old saying from the Bible or what not: “you can tell a person by their fruits…?” My grandfather used to say, you can tell a person by the company they keep. Well, to be honest, you can truly tell a person by just one little thing: THEIR HABITS.
Habits can either make or break ya. Habits decern your fate & future. Habits decide your health & hygiene. Habits determine your mood & attitude, your growth & expansion, your wealth & status. Habits facilitate your progress or NOT, your success or NOT. Habits set the standard, set the stage, tune your vibe, establish your frequency, fashion your flow, direct your path, paint your canvas, decorate your day. Habits fuel your energy level, fortify your presence, dial in your impact & influence. Habits wind up being the thing in place that thus attracts associates, partners, friends, important players… who in effect, you will find have very similar ones. This is no coincidence.
Habits make the man (or woman)… as they say. Not the shoes, jacket, designer bag, or fly tie… the HABITS. The secret ones, the not so secret ones. The default ones, the deliberate ones. The trusty ole standby ones, the new improved (most likely) more beneficial ones. What you do when no one is looking… COUNTS, I have news for ya. The outdated antique falling apart habits with mildew & moth holes… these HAVE GOT TO GO!
Habits can indeed be outgrown. Habits can be formed or unformed in the blink of an eye. “Habits are important!” Is actually an understatement. Habits are KING. Not secondary, but PRIORITY. Habits are what you are made of. If you were a cake, & you had to list your ingredients… it would be your habits. I like cake analogies.
Today’s TO DO:
NOTICE your habits. PAY ATTENTION to your micro moves.
Then, each time you observe one… gaugeyour first instinct & break out this handy checklist:
Does this habit feel dense & heavy (3D) or light & free (5D)?
Does this habit serve my highest good?
Does this habit align with my values?
Is this habit a good investment? (of my time)
Is this habit keeping me stuck or moving forward?
In order to be HIGHLY EFFECTIVE, like the book title says, we must have HIGHLY EFFECTIVE HABITS. It’s a pretty simple formula. Not rocket science, a first grader would get it. This nugget is well over due.
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Your friend, associate or family member’s point of attraction could likely damage yours if it is riddled with unfinished business & unresolved past pain. Would you like me to repeat that?
What another human being draws unto themselves as a result of their particular karmic imprint… could very well sneak up on you, if you do not protect your energy. This is why it is recommended protocol to establish boundaries & stay within a safe distance from others who may have vulnerable or weak auric fields. People with dim or dull tarnished energy bodies are in jeopardy of attracting adverse circumstances, situations, people, places & things, “sin,” sickness, disease, unease, stress, anger, conflict, harm, danger or even worst case scenario… death.
All manner of toxicity is always magnetically drawn to match its counterpart: low vibration. It is Universal law. If young humans were taught this in a classroom in kindergarten, we/they would be in much better shape today as adults who run this world. We would be much more well-adjusted & much less mentally & emotionally challenged in terms of living a “best” life here, & what that means. If we as a culture had taught our youth from the gate, that we indeed are willing participants in the orchestration of our fate… we would have built a better quality society. We would have learned that we are in fact responsible parties, not victims to others, random events & experiences. This would have made for a collective community of human beings that are NOT lost, struggling or mad.
“Why me?” is a lie made up by a cave man mentality better known as the ego. Similarly, the victim card & poor me syndrome are essentially fabricated concepts devised to keep us stuck on a rat wheel of sorts. We have thus become slaves to a society that we have allowed to blind us with this kind of false information. In truth, we are co-creators with Divine design & should rightfully behave accordingly & act responsibly. Universal Law which is God’s law should be logistically woven into the fabric of a universal curriculum taught in our schools to our young minds nation & worldwide. Period.
Going forward, if we were to be a wise society, we would rewrite all official textbooks to reflect Universal Law, & never look back. Our children would then grow up by default… to be victors instead of victims. This “middle-age karmic clean up” the current generations find themselves having to contend with to get free & live a best life… will no longer be applicable to healed humans. The middle age crisis of corrections will no longer play out or be necessary for future generations that learn how to apply universal law in the first place, in the early stages of their development. It’s not rocket science. It makes perfect sense & actually solves most problems in the world.
Universal law is not some woo woo fairy tale, it is LAW. What part of the word law, don’t people understand? There are no real mysteries here on earth, like formerly believed & touted by historic literature & religious rhetoric & dogma. Let’s be all pompous & create false stories of big unknown enigmas for gain, entertainment or falsecontrol. It’s not that dramatic, people. The victim card might make good TV, but it’s definitely not good living.
Every single happenstance occurs for a reason. Every single action causes an equal & opposite reaction. It’s a scientific law in physics uncovered by Sir Issac Newton which can also be called: karma, in my view. “What comes around goes around.” Listen to some early recordings of Bob Marley & the Wailers some time, & they will teach you the rules & laws that apply to us while incarnate here on this planet. They had it down pretty darn pat, if ya ask me. The weed they were smokin’ really shifted their perspective to… REALITY, well beyond the status quo state of mind control.
The statement: “as within so without,” might be named a theoretic notion by a Greek philosopher, but in truth, it is another universal law. So it should come as no surprise then, that science & spirit match in this case. Science reflects Spirit & vice versa. They should not be falsely portrayed as enemies that go against each other to prove points. Science & God’s Universal Law actually work together in perfect harmony. Thus, karma & Newton’s law… are basically one & the same. Science & Spirit are thus reflections of each other.
All these years we were taught otherwise, & this has confused & tormented the crap out of the very fabric of our lives upon a most fundamental level. The famous opposition of these two things (science & spirit) has led great minds astray, to say the least. As a result we have wasted precious time & energy & lifetimes, frankly, questioning all the “mysteries” of life as if they are NOT written in the sacred science of astrology or numerology or the stars, when THEY ARE!!
There is a roadmap that has been both literally & figuratively in our backyard staring us in the face for centuries, on how to live on earth best. But we as a nation of humans have so far chosen to collectively ignore or deny that fact & disagree, dispute & reject any semblance of truth that these sacred sciences offer.
We have been given these NATURAL sacred resources to consult, learn, understand & apply to our lives so we may live on this planet as free beings of light. It is a crime, that for centuries, the government of man has collectively decided to blatantly disregard what Nature intended. The result? Global unrest. Global warming. Death. Destruction. The 7 deadly sins. Sickness. Disease. Pollution. All… from not adhering to the natural principles of our God given birthrights.
Mathematicians & astrologers & even real theologians know all about the power of the absolute zero, the power of numbers & how our astrological birth charts give us an exact detailed blueprint of our exact individual life designs, without much margin for error, honestly. The Jesus Statement “know thyself” ring a bell? This is our ultimate mirror. The mirror that man decided long ago to act like was a “theory” versus a FACT. Thus making it NOT mandatory information written into the books we pass down generation upon generation & as a result, flawed systems of belief ensued.
The half truths collective society had baked into our psyche over generations of religious dogma has plagued us to the enth degree. Consequently we have been operating as subpar beings made of illconceived notions banking on false promises. Our souls light dimmed, dulled, was forsaken. We have thus served man not God, due to that, & adverse karma has been our policy as a human nation, our collective theme song, if you will. It’s a pretty simple formula. And, it’s not personal per se… it’s science. What we put out, we get back. It’s a boomerang. It’s law. God’s law. The TRUTH.
The ego is a narcissist & likes to make everything personal & “about him.” Like he is all a big bad sinner that must repent & be forgiven & saved in some sort of big fashionable way. But this is simply not necessary. When a human creates adverse karma, he reaps what he sows. There will be no devil, hell, eternal damnation. It’s a quick fix for the human, really… create better karma. See… that wasn’t so bad.
Healthier choices will clean up your energy body, & the spiritually bankrupted self will fade away. Voila! The original light of your Godself or soul energy body will thus begin to shine through again & dominate your being’s experience by default.
Speaking of cleaning up karma, as I was saying before, the folks who have a compromised point of attraction need to do this MOST. Misery indeed loves company by drawing unto itself an equal energetic match. “A like attracts a like” is another way to describe the universal law of attraction. Thus, you will not be guilty by association if you engage with such people with a compromised karmic cache, but rather, will be prone to the static of their vibes. You will be subject to being afflicted, affected or even infected by what their subpar vibratory frequency may thus adversely attract.
I say: “Watch your back… what you allow to enter into your energy field, you become.”
This, my friends, is fair warning & should be all the information you ever need to be street smart in this world. Heed these words: protect your energy. It is the one thing that you can control to create your lot in life or destiny. It is actually, in truth, an imperative main priority & our first due diligent responsibility as humans on earth. “Seek ye first the kingdom of God & all else will be added” Jesus statement ring any bells? This IS the kingdom. Tend to your energy body, soul, God identity… FIRST, and, all the rest of everything else like your health, wholeness & happiness will just fall into place accordingly. Again… it’s Universal/God’s law. And Gods law is code for: not debatable.
It’s pretty simple. Our energy bodies/auric fields & chakra systems make up the anatomy of the soul & define the very essence of your spirit & God identity. From THIS, the core of your health & wellness, & all else stems, essentially. Do not slack in keeping your auric body safe & sound, because you will pay a price. The cost comes in many guises: worry, doubt, fear, paranoia, sadness, depression, anger, jealousy, envy & contempt that will eventually & inevitably sabotage your life path. These things will starve your existence until you wind up sick, suffering & deteriorating to a slow crumbling unattractive demise. Yuk.
Care for your soul by protecting your energy field. Honor your true identity which is God caliber, & nourish your mind & heart with good thoughts & lovely feelings. YOU, my friend, are the master of your destiny. No man will ever be great & powerful, wise & free, loved & happy, healthy & whole… unless he or she is true to their essence daily. If you brush your teeth twice a day… you should be practicing an energy ritual, chakra attunement &/or meditation sit session at least twice a day too. No excuses.
Habits create your health. Create great ones. Don’t be an Amateur. It’s not a good look.
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I’ve never been one to boast or brag, but, I have been alcohol-free for one whole year, today. If you would like to read how that originally transpired, & also catch a gritty glimpse into the rest of my whole life story in an entertaining chapter trio… tap on the link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08TQ7F2CB for book, e-book or audio. The following poem is an excerpt from “The Age of Aquarius” chapter 7: What Tipping Point?
Ode to thee Old Drunk Archetype
No more loose boundaries, or unsolicited hookups I regret. No more being the bodacious buzz girl just hanging out to party or see how far the party can get. No more loose purse strings, blowing my tip money on shots for the whole bar… twice. No more loose lips, drunk texting, drunk posting, being way too friendly & way too overly nice.
No more saying things I didn’t mean. No more blacked-out moments I swore were just a dream. No more finding out later all the snide comments I made the night before. No more smoking weed until I’m not in Kansas anymore. No more white lines from weird guys. No more dumb decisions, or risky rides. No more letting bad behavior slip or slide. No more looking over my shoulder, having to run, duck or hide. No more scarfing down 2am pizza or bumming a dirty smoke. No more waking up with crazy cuts or bruises or thinking life is such a joke.
No more middle of the night fridge raids, or 1000 calorie binges. No more being slumped over the side of my bed parched with my door half off the hinges. No more waking up with a bunch of names & numbers in my phone I don’t even know or recognize. No more uncomfortable days where I can see my mortality in the mirror, my age in my hands, & a big fat ice pack across both eyes.
No more losing my keys, an earring or a shoe. No more in a panic looking for my purse & phone, tearing up everything for a clue. No more waking up with a guilty conscience, & a bunch of mysterious regrets. No more waking up with a pounding headache, in a bunch of cold clammy sweats.
No more red wine stains, or sticky stuff in my hair. No more crumbs & candy wrappers strewn without a care. No more racking my brain to figure out what exactly went down. No more wondering how I wound up all the way on the other side of town. No more letting the night get away from me or the day disappear. No more blackout disaster areas in my house, knocked over lamps, broken plant pots & spilled warm smelly beer.
No more next day blues in hungover city where I pretty much lose an entire day, or three, to recover my soul. No more struggling hungover workdays that feel like a square peg in a round god-ding-it hole. No more mornings still drunk from the night before. No more hair of the dog smoothies for breakfast while I sit crashed on the floor.
No more need for secret stashes, airplane bottles or wine boxes in my trunk. No more do I need a drink to relax, unwind, get loose, or get pumped. No more do I need a drink to deal with the grind or cope. No more do I need a drink for liquid courage, peace or sleep… that would be a, nope!
No more anxiety, worry, or secret guilt do I harbor because I feel like I can’t handle life without a buzz. No more compromised self-worth because of that, & pretending to be just fine, when I really feel like scuzz. No more buffering my true feelings. No more drinking my cares away. No more excuses. No more explanations. No more being comfortably numb all the live long day.
I have a new buzz now. It’s way better. It’s not temporary. It’s definitely here to stay. It doesn’t make you numb or not fun or have consequences that make you pay. It doesn’t take prisoners or produce casualties, & it doesn’t cost a thing but a choice. Choose wisely. Choose LOVE. No matter your fix or vice, if you still have a heartbeat, you still have a voice.
It’s no secret, we are SOULS in suits. We are only here in this particular body for a stint of a lifetime & then we recycle back into our light body form & transition over into our next mission which could very well be, yet another lifetime here. We are thus, masters of this recycling process, & have been through the systematic transferring of states over & over again, for centuries. In truth, we are cosmic travelers who embody different vehicles at different times for different reasons. Just as water can take on the form of a solid, liquid, or gas… so can our soul thus take on many forms as warranted, just the same.
Our souls are adaptable cosmic chameleons that indeed are the very essence of who we are on a most fundamental level. There is no disputing it. Matter cannot be created or destroyed, just as the soul cannot be disproven to not beahuman’s actual true identity. In the past, certain religious beliefs may have regarded reincarnation as a superstitious theory… but, we now know, with certainty, how outdated that is. The soul is a cosmic traveler that is a vast entity of light, love & eternal knowingness that is a collection of data & energetic codes. The light body, or soul, is who we actually are. It is the “thing” that we must have allegiance to FIRST. And, the quote from Jesus Christ master of 5D: “Seek ye first the kingdom of God, & all else will be added to you,” MEANS THIS.
It’s no longer just a speculative topic that we mull over at the dinner table or casually chat about on a Wednesday afternoon or marvel at upon our Sunday service or church sermon. It is our DUTY as a soul in a human suit, to honor the “motherland,” the soul self. Why? Well, because it is the ONE thing that needs to run well, like a gassed up truck with shiny new tires & a fresh oil change ready for the open road. It is the ONE thing that must be wired right, for us to have a thriving bountiful beautiful life here. Our very existence depends on the condition of our light body, our soul self. If we do not tend to the very vessel of our BEING, & it begins to become a half lit Christmas tree of sorts… we will begin also, to be shit out of luck, as they say.
If the flesh & blood body vehicle is our temple, then the liquid light body of our soul is where the temple plugs in its hardware. If the lights go out in the temple… it’s cause the connection to the source of its energetic alignment is crimped. It’s very simple.Serve soul first, & all else will fall into place accordingly, no matter what. It is Universal law that is, again, NOT up for debate. Law is law. God’s law is NOT man’s law. Man’s law is flawed & can be disputed, but God’s… not so much. And, God’s law or Universal law states: the soul, (light body, auric field, & chakra system) is the MOST important garden to cultivate & properly maintain.
Because we have thus followed an opposite formula for decades & centuries of gardening the outer verses the inner of us instead, there have been consequences. Ya think? Here is your visible evidence that proves what NOT serving soul FIRST looks like: sin, sickness, aging, deterioration, suffering, pain, & death. If we were a collective civilization & species that would have served soul FIRST instead, all these years… we would find ourselves in much better shape today. We would find ourselves typically not aging, acquiring sickness, illness, or disease. Deterioration, suffering, pain, loss, regret, guilt, poverty, struggle, strife… all these things are merely the MISCREATIONS of a left brained human society out of balance.
The left brain dominated unabridged ego mind is the culprit here. It’s cunning twisted charm has been an erratic loose cannon with a dark & stormy agenda for centuries. Like a pack of Wild West insubordinate outlaws rippin’, runnin’, robbin’ banks & holding humanity hostage, we have had to stand by & allow it to play out, essentially. That is… UNTIL NOW. For a plethora of agonizing generations human DNA had been held captive by this long lineage of distorted false programs & beliefs. This has made us into a culture of casualties & survivors, & thus a bunch of wounded souls at the end of the day, that keep repeating the same karmic lessons lifetime after lifetime, incarnation after bloody incarnation of challenging tests. Well, I am here to tell ya… games over, wily guy. Bad boys don’t excite us anymore. Healed ones do.
The genetic codes & wiring of old school paradigms of miscreated states of consciousness that thus produced & manifested adverse circumstances & experiences… are no longer valid. We are now approaching the Golden Age of Humanity circa 21st century, & what we are calling “New Earth” is at hand. This means that the expired codes & old wiring are now presently being transmuted into light by droves of light workers, Angels, guides, & guardians of us & our planet. Ultra terrestrials & benevolent beings of light upon all levels are NOW finally assisting this very long awaited SHIFT. It’s happening whether you believe it or not. It just IS. I am here to share this TRUTH. Voilà.
Age… is not just a number. It is a tactfully crafted lump sum of moments that have industriously capitalized on every single experience you have ever had in the whole grand scheme of things & then some. What a statement. What a mouthful. What a tall order to fill. What a magnanimous journey it took to get here. This life, we live, circa the 21st century, for pretty much each & every single one of us, is an incarnation that is one of many. This incarnation is the product of a long line of incarnations wherefore we had multiplicities of experiences here on earth in a human suit. Every single incarnation that we ever had led up to this: the life we lead right now.
Looking at it like this, is wise. This, in truth, is the reality of who we each are, & the realistic nature of our journey. Our individual lineage of lives we each carry with us like an echo of miles & miles of collected karmic creations, miscreations, entanglements, experiences & expressions… is what fate & destiny is made of. The very fabric of our life path is composed of the innumerable free will choices we made over our numerous, too many to count, lifetimes here.
This makes us SOLELY responsible for our outcomes, our dispositions, our states of consciousness. This makes what we CHOOSE the main reason for each & every one of our experiences, good or bad & all in between. Our “lot in life” is a direct & indirect result of the sum total of every choice we ever made, centuries wide. OUR FREE WILL choices, big or small, make up who we are, what we attract, & thus, how we are treated. The quality of our life depends on all the accumulated choices we made over lifetimes. This makes CHOICE, the only thing that really matters in life. Because, your choice is what makes you. Their choice is what makes them. Every single choice, move, maneuver, thought, word & deed you set forth out into the ether is a tiny microscopic energetic puzzle piece cocreating the artistry of the entire container of your existence.
It has been said, that we do not take anything with us after we die. Material wealth does not go with us to the grave. We can’t take the money, house, car or loved ones. BUT… we DO take OUR CHOICES. Yes, we take each & every one of our unique choices. The Universe does not miss a beat, when it comes to collecting every single move we make, decision, intention, & affirmation. Make no mistake, the Universe ALWAYS delivers. Make no mistake, there is no such thing as a secret, either. The Universe is ALWAYS listening. No matter what the choice, the Universe will indefinitely tuck it right in, weave it right in, paint it right in, blend it right in, bake it right in. Choices are the ingredients that compose the recipe of both our genetic & energetic imprint. Both our physical & ethereal design is a composite of our choices. These choice ingredients build your body, heart, mind, soul, character, personality, & position. Choices are the flavors that make up YOU. So, my advice is… when prompted: discern wisely, deliberately decide & consciously CHOOSE.
The fancy, buttercream, carefully crafted cake of your very existence… depends on it. Make your ingredients COUNT, today.
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“Say YES to new adventures!” We can all relate to snapping out of comfort zones with inspirational quotes like this one. What a great plaque or signature tee, optimistic sentiment brimming with enthusiasm, & a bold expression of pop culture just wanting to LIVE. I get it. But…
“Say NO to people, places, things, circumstances & experiences that will not serve your highest good & support the modus operandi of your best life now…”
…should be a billboard on the side of every highway across America. Or, maybe, this statement should be spun into a curriculum, a series of modules, a workbook or webinar. Knowing when to say NO… separates the boys from men, if you will. This is where the sensitive empathic nature of the female principle is used to discern truth & thus harness its counterpart male dominant energy to the fullest in one tiny word: NO.
NO, just like YES, can give our power back. Go ahead… no one’s lookin’… say it out loud right now… “NO!” It feels pretty darn good, doesn’t it? YES & NO must be bestowed equal “air time” in the life of anyone who wants to be treated fair & just by others & the world around them. Neither position can be discounted over the other. They both equally serve their own unique dutiful purposes as needed. There is a time & season for all things under the sun.
It’s no secret that everybody loves the word YES!
“Say YES to the dress!” “She said YES!” “Yes please, thank you, more!”
The word YES is a happy word, a “game” word, a green light word, a word filled with promise, awe, wonder & excitement. Pop culture has been hooked on it for ages, essentially. Well… at least until Nancy Reagan launched the “just say no” drug campaign in ’82 & then of course the #TimesUp movement saturated society with a big fat “N” “O” in recent years, that shut down jackasses everywhere.
Regarding the 20th century, most of us Gen-Xers & Boomers were raised to have “manners,” & to be politely agreeable at all costs. After all, it was not kosher, professional, neighborly, gentlemanly or ladylike, to say NO. The word NO, indicated rebellion, rejection or rebuke… in the old days. We were taught to be YES people. Eventually we grew out of those outdated standards. We now know better. But never-the-less, the word NO, still carries with it, the weight of old school implications, connotations, traditions, customs & paradigms that are just plain flawed.
That said, this article is about NO, because it’s the less popular word of the two & it deserves some long overdue airtime. The word NO, can appear daunting at times, no doubt. NO, can come across abrupt, inconsiderate, brash, critical, anti-social, disrespectful, irritable or disagreeable, indeed. NO, can sound snobby, arrogant or rude. NO, can sound pretentious, pompous or short. It might get a bad rap for being sure & unwavering, but NO, doesn’t care… it stands in its power anyway, despite naysayers. No pun intended.
It’s probably not a good idea to get in the habit of agreeing to something just because you may think it is your only option. Mister Larry Limitation is just a left brain mind gamer. Do not be mistaken, when one door closes, another one opens ALWAYS. In truth, there are plenty of options & alternatives at your disposal. Trust this fact. Just because you may not SEE the next door, doesn’t mean it’s not around the corner. Geez, if we all had a crystal ball in our pocket, the faith muscle would shrivel up into a tiny raisin of rigid rationalizations. Yik.
NO, streamlines a clean cut down the fabric of a choice & a decision is made in favor of the alternative. NO, is an unassuming YES, in disguise, to an unequivocal reply. No ambiguity, no mincing words, no fuzzy maybe, no uneasy Eddie or uncertain Sally dawdling, or pacing with worry lines of trepidation. Potential empty promises burn holes in the rug of regret, but NO, restores our sense of dignity, decency, due diligence, integrity, accountability, & allegiance to none other than… ourselves.
Dignity, decency, due diligence, integrity, accountability, & allegiance. Those are some strong words. Those are words that contain qualities & character traits of a true leader. All the folks we look up to for demos of how to behave, react, respond & handle things best, exemplify the energy of those words. Leaders might indeed know how to say YES, but they sure as shit know the fine art of NO.
We all crave attention, connection, community, companionship, comradery. But it should never be satisfied at the expense of us, compromising our self-worth or monopolizing our time & energy. Neediness or desperation is no excuse to give in to the YES, when you really want to say NO. Your hair stands up, the pit starts to deepen, your inner voice says NO, & your soul is writing it all over the wall next to ya in thick black indelible marker. LISTEN to your gut instincts, your first emotional response, your intuitive nudges, inklings, prompts, hints of clues of those whispering small voices in your head.
Intuition & instincts MATTER. Yes, NOmatters. Saying NO, is a requirement for a good life. If you want to stay sane, balanced, level-headed, tuned in, aligned, at peace & in control of your choices, knowing when to say NO, is a must. Saying NO is a requirement for a safe & secure existence, where your Auric field isn’t trampled on & your energy escrow isn’t sucked dry. Saying NO is a firm acknowledgement of who you are, where you stand, & what is acceptable or not in your realm of experience.
Saying NO, is claiming your position, with no margin for error, questionable intentions, or ulterior motives. Saying NO, means setting definitive boundaries that show people the door, where the closed sign is flipped, & the hours of operation are clearly posted. No means NO… is a real thing. NO should be honored to the fullest each day, no matter what our inner whiny kid wants or what the status quo seductively dog whistles into our psyche via commercialism & FOMO. Knowing the art of NO, should be a mandatory class in high school.
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Clean those closets! Empty the stale ice cube trays. Toss the old socks from ’98. Dust the dark corner with shelves that bugs live on.
For the love of God… please unleash all that cluttery stuff you’ve been piling up for some time now, for some vague (rational) reason, in a stained old padded envelope, tucked away in a moth balled box, that’s hidden in some weird wire crate, in the remote reaches of the weeded paint peeling shed out back, that you are saving for just the right moment that never actually arrives… ever.
Make SPACE. For new fresh energy to emerge. For new fresh ideas to blossom. For the things that no longer serve us to fall away… so new improved relationships & connections can replace them.
2. Unlearn… relearn.
Unlearn all the lies we have been being taught, disguised as truths… for eons upon eons by the status quo government of “man.” Let us RELEARN the right ways of being, seeing, knowing, feeling, having, etc etc. Let’s realign ourselves to the REAL TRUTH. Oh look, I just so happen to have a TRUTH MANUAL handy>>>here: Decline of Civility: How to Rise to the Occasion VIA AMAZON
Delete old programs & outdated systems of belief that have no use for us at this juncture. It is time for each of us to continuously work daily to download the New Earth programs of freedom, fulfillment, unconditional love, joy & Divine union.
4. Unprogram. Reprogram.
As I said, Unprogram the outdated limiting beliefs we have all collected over time. The false narratives we follow & buy into. The stories we tell ourselves of unrest, anxiety, worry, poor me-hood, victim-hood, of not being good enough, rich enough, pretty enough, smart enough, fit enough. The stories we spin of guilt, shame, loss, limitation, lack, sadness, pain, suffering, regret, unworthiness, poverty. It’s time to release the howw-uuundzzz.
5. Let go of bad habits. Implement new ones.
This is a continuous process. With #4 being said… do not slack here, you can’t afford it. PRACTICE new habits daily to form new patterns to change the way we experience life, best self style.
6. Release the past. Embrace the NOW.
The past is an old worn out shoe. New path, new shoes. “The present is a GIFT.” I bet that old adage has been said a million times before. Ya think?
7. Forgive & let live. Be your best self TODAY.
Um, yeah, well, studies show, that the resentment, anger, or unforgiveness we may harbor towards someone, is actually only hurting US, not them. Would you like me to repeat that?
8. Bye bye EGO. Hellooooooo Soul shine!! 🌞
Well, the EGO is a bitter old man who just can never seem to get his rocks off properly & he blames everyone else for it. Time for him to GO. Our soul self is soooo much more equipped to handle this life & harness the GREATness of our GOD-identity. “Made in the image,” ring a bell? The EGO is clueless in that department, & thinks IMAGE means… his ugly mug in the rear view he keeps obsessing about.
9. Bye bye energy vamps. Helloooooo Earth Angels!
Well, well, well… sun too bright for ya, Drac? The SILVER studs I’m wearin’ gotchya squirmy? What about all the GARLICY pasta I loaded up on at the Little Italy Buffet this afternoon in the caff… feeling a little queazy, are ya?
Fact is… Earth Angels were always here. But now, there are MORE. We all have the potential to be Earth Angels. That is well within our Divine rights as human beings on the planet at this time. So exercise your rights, human! Be the Earth Angel you are destined!
10. Take the shadow self by the hand & drag him with you.
“Welcome to the New Earth, this will be your new reality from now on, where we each consciously choose to live an honorable soul-inspired life!” The great & powerful Oz has spoken!
The more we embrace our shadow selves by embracing our flaws, missteps, miscreations, 3D tendencies, subpar habits & faulty limiting patterns & belief systems… the more our shadows will integrate with us to formulate a superior being of power, authority, strength, courage & wisdom. Kinda like what we would imagine the avatar of Arch Angel Michael to look like. Shadow self + Soul self = Superior Spirit Self. The transformation equation. Think PHOENIX rising.
11. Off we go! From 3D to 5D in a flash!
From 3Dfuzzy black & white old grey antiquated TV set with rabbit ears lookin’REALITY, to a 5Dultra High Def, LCD, LED, plasma, 8 star, cinematic surround sounded crystal clear virtual reality, REALITY.
Later gator… 3D drag of a realm, it was a hoot! 😳 But, we are now graduating… to way higher vibratory frequencies!! (despite appearances😎) Get ready for lift off! 5D paradigms, here we come! 🎉🏋💯👍😁
Get out, doubt! Ya big fat hungry cow. Today I am choosing to live in the worry-free zone of the NOW.
You will not come between me & my passion. I have a love affair to nourish, a fortune to fashion. I have a heart to expand, horizons to stretch. My fuel is FAITH, I have higher planes to catch.
Doubt, you are no pal of mine. Belief is my partner in crime. You won’t be leaving me in a pickle, with your bad attitude, & uncertainty that’s fickle. Your conniving little riddles no longer rock the boat, cause trust is my companion that keeps these water wings afloat.
I will invite you in, only if you win. I invited the fun, cause it already won. I invite flexible freedom, cause it casts no fears. I invite small pleasures, cause they make memorable days into valuable years.
Get out doubt! You’re just a pushy little swine. You only clutter, close, & callous the mind. Take a sabbatical, a retreat, a long overdue vaycay… dash off to where the warm sea-salted breeze can whittle all your whining away.
Doubt, you are young, dumb, foolish & unrefined. You’re undecided, scared & wasting my time. The tiny little space you rented in the house of my head is foreclosed. You no longer take up residence, are no longer opposed.
You may no longer stay, make me pay, ruin my day. Your time has expired… your fired! You’re just so plain uncouth & so rude, that I’ve decided to replace you with little Miss Gratitude.
I burnt the box you were in, chimney swept you out. It’s time to go, my dear, please don’t scream & shout. Because I can’t hear you, I listen only to LOVE speak. The rat tales you spun are meager, hapless & weak.
Oh dear lovely sunshine… when you paint the skies today with your ray-filled brush of sorts… I will honor only the blessings that Miss glorious Gratitude courts. I will focus on benefits, bounty, beauty & wealth. I will embrace the sounds, the smells, the gifts of good health.
I look, I see, I acknowledge, I feel, I know. I allow, I am acquainted, I am connected, I flow. I am receptive & open, my heart is sparkly & spacious, my soul is on fire, my spirit is vivacious. I sit & bask, sleep or relax, take the scenic route & drive for miles. Doubt, you’re only a raindrop… in a bucket of contagious smiles.
Rowdy Doubty-pants… I’ve unpaved your silly plans. Sunshine & happiness are my newest friends & fans.
Sport that Diamond sparkly crown, give it all you’ve got! Flip that frown upside down, run & jump & hop! Life is good 🙂
We all go through phases: the ebb & flow of humanhood. Ups, downs, highs, lows, in’s, out’s, smiles, frowns. There is a time & a season for all things under the sun. No matter how cheap, fleeting, undeniably rash… these phases may appear to be at times… they are true to our nature, at the very core of our DNA strands & thus very notable indeed.
We are endowed with human tendencies that are riddled with fancy cologies & conditions & isms. We are a breed of people that yes… innately have a lush fondness for things BUT… also indefinitely harbor a rather intense disdain for things. We have moods & attitudes; raging hormones & health conditions; standpoints & viewpoints; beliefs & standards. Often, we wake up not only on the wrong side of the bed, but face down on the floor board next to it.
I am compelled to say: we humans are just birthed with a sense of juxtaposition toward our fellow man & numerous thankless things, at that. We like to fight, argue, pick on each other, scrap, spat, spar, tussle, bicker & rumble. We enjoy healthy competition, formidable opposition, a dispute, a good debate, a daring challenge.
I feel good about the idea though, that we all experience this very same feature, because it’s a joining commonality. Human hood is strewn with beautiful blending energies of similarity & oneness through our shared common differences. And, this appears to be the great paradox of the 3-dimensional realm.
That said, let us celebrate our feuding qualities & conflicting characteristics. Let’s be grateful for our enemies & oppositions… for they neutralize the air of extremity, balance the high tide of compulsion, secure the grounding cord of our convictions & bless us with the kind of challenges that either prove our theories further or force us to reevaluate deeper… tighten our game so to speak. At best, even inspire us to be better individuals.
“Anything that annoys you, is teaching you patience. Anything that angers you, is teaching you forgiveness & compassion. Anyone who leaves you, is teaching you how to stand on your own two feet. Anything that has power over you, is teaching you how to take that power back. Anything you hate, is teaching you unconditional love. Anything you fear, is teaching you the courage to overcome it. Anything you can’t control, is teaching you how to let go.” –The Law Of Attraction Videos
Keep your friends close; keep your enemies closer. Be vigilant. Observe. Learn the lessons that are indeed offered & revealed via opposition. Sight the signs, spot the symbols, coincidences, messages, red flags & green lights. Any one or thing that may appear to be said “enemy” is only just the Universe declaring a friendly voice of either reason or validation; &/or also providing us with the possibility of another better more beneficial path. A redirect, if you will. An escape route you may or may not have known you needed.
On many occasions, said enemy has only really appeared before you on the screen of your experience to give your chosen position a healthy test that essentially questions your faith, & dedication, thus determining how sturdy it really is. Then you may make adjustments &/or improvements accordingly depending on how well you fare.
The devil’s advocate is actually a sheep dressed in wolf’s clothes. Our only battle we ever have is with our ability to speak our truth, know ourselves, love unconditionally, & then go forth to live our dreams with no regrets. The only war we are engaged in, is the war with self-doubt, fear, scarcity, lack & limitation.
It’s probably then a good idea to suit up with the gear of FAITH & be armed with the sword & shield of
KNOWING. Ideally, we should position our minds to disbelieve in any false idea of an evil militia outside of ourselves seeking to attack our best interest & highest good with bad news. There is no bad news. Only good news. Fling up the antenna & perceive the real deal: the only “enemy” is within. Period.
When life hands ya lemons, don’t just make lemonade… make lemon meringue pie, lemon cake, lemon cookies, Lemon snow cones, lemon drop shots, plant lemon trees & then go back & set up a stand & make more lemonade for the whole darn neighborhood! Be triumphant today. Respond, react, cope, accordingly. Our true point of power is within our ability to handle life. It’s not what happens to us, it is indeed how we respond to it… & how we handle it. Handle it graciously & gracefully, no matter what happens. The rewards will be generous & handsomely distributed to the “good sport.”
Don’t be a sore loser or a poor me Polly, a violent Valerie, road-rage Ronnie, Angry Allen or Betsy blamer. Rise to the occasion, don’t just bite the bullet, but chew it like Bubble Yum, blow a nice big bubble & then decide to take antagonism &/or defeat out for ice cream on a sunny day 🙂
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